So you want to know “how do I get my ex back?” Here you will learn three different strategies to get your ex back. They are each of them separate and non linked options, so you have to select one of them and see it through.
Option number one is to let your ex think you are desperate to get them back. You spend your time sending them quantities of messages and calling them all hours of the day and night. This is more likely to turn them off you completely than to bring the results you want, unless your ex is completely stupid. If this is the case you should ask yourself why you want them back at all.
The second method is simply to let them see that you are available. Once you have given them a little space and left them to sort themselves out for a few weeks, you may find that they are starting to have second thoughts about the separation. Answer their messages and their calls, and give them a helping hand, without pushing them to come back to you. At the same time you should get on with your own life. Date other girls and enjoy yourself. You should seek reasons for telephoning your ex and you should get friends to see if there is a possibility of her wanting to get back with you. You should be present in places where you expect your ex to be.
When you don’t think that making yourself available is going to bring you the results you are looking for, you have to step things up and go for the third option. If you go this route you are going to have to be much more aggressive in your approach. You are going to get down to man’s basic instincts and try to make your ex jealous.
You are going to have to work on making yourself irresistible to your ex. When you are in their company, you must spend all your time looking after their friends whilst completely ignoring your ex. When you manage to book a date with one of your ex’s best friends, ask your ex which restaurant they think your date would prefer. Your Ex will start to get the message that you are not only the person they want to be with but you are back on the market in force. Now they are going to have to make their pitch if they want to get you back.
Never forget that opting for this choice is exceedingly dangerous and it can rebound and cause you considerable personal suffering when you have invested a lot of emotional effort into trying to get back your ex.
These are the three different strategies you can choose to adopt when you want to get your ex back.